Dear Future Husband: An Open Letter


Dear Future Husband,

Where ever, you may be. I just want you to know that I have been waiting for you, Ever so patiently, and you’ll learn that I’m not the most patient person in the world…..

But… I’ve been praying for you, for years now. Wondering what you’re doing, where you’ve been, and how much of life you’ve experienced without me. I’ve been asking to be pointed in your directions, and honestly, I think I may have already met you…

I love knowing that you, my future awesome husband, were made¬†especially for me. You were handpicked and created for little ol’ me. You were made to love every piece of me.. Even the pieces that I may not be the most fond of… You were made to love those too. I’ll be accepted flaws and all, comforted when I’m afraid to keep going, and put back together when I fall apart.. And for that.. I will always love you.

There are a few things that I would like for you to know. I will love you unconditionally, no matter what you do or don’t do. Simply because God loves you… and that is more than enough reasons for me to do the same.

I know there will be days where you’ll cry, feel broken and need me. You’ll be upset and angry. But I’m here. Don’t ever be afraid to let me know that you NEED me. I will never think less of you. I will never abandon you. Even in the darkest of times, I will always be there to love, support and comfort you.

No, ¬†I’m not perfect, and some days I may pout when I don’t get my way. I may be upset with you for no other reason, than just needing some of your attention and love. I know that I’ll unintentionally be a handful, spontaneous, stubborn and annoying.. But I can promise you that I’ll always support your dreams, and push you when you start to give up. I promise to never leave you when you fall and I’ll never allow you to wallow in failure or remain discouraged. I know that I can’t promise you the world, but I know I’ll try hard as hell to give it to you. I will never stop praying for you; even after you’re mine.

No matter the ups and downs, what life throws at us, as long as our foundation is solid, we will always be okay. I just ask that you never give up on me.. Even on the hardest days, please always choose me; and I promise to do the same..

I just can’t wait to share life with you.. And have alllllll your babies, (there will be a limit.) and Just love you openly and freely. We’ll fight and make up. We’ll disagree, we’ll love, we’ll live… and decades from now, we’ll be able to look back on everything we’ve created together.. all of the moments we shared.. and I’d still be thanking God for you.

Thank you in advance, for choosing to deal with me and loving me beyond measure; when that time comes. I just pray that you get here in one piece and you can keep your sense of humor..

With love,

Your future wife…


About Sierra Michelle

Sierra Michelle is the founder and writer for Natural Hair Junkies. Sierra is also a Usui Reiki Master Practitioner, Certified Natural Healer. She also guest blogs, does public relations, management and brand marketing. While being a full-time Mother and student, dual majoring in both Psychology and Business Administration. She works full time, 9 to 5, while fulfilling her passions in writing, and creating jewelry. Sierra is an aspiring Yogi, learning the art of chakra balance through crystals and meditation. She crafts body and beard butters on the weekends and desires to spread her positivity to every being possible. Peace & Light

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