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Flaws and All Life really points out your flaws, I’m the first to take note of mine and try to internally fix them. Not for anyone else, but for myself. I know that sometimes it’s hard to actually sit with yourself and see & accept the fault in yourself. Many …

Disclaimer* Before you get all sensitive No, I am “not a bitter, independent black woman that doesn’t need a man”. I’m not nor have I ever been your “stereotypical black woman”. I believe in dating, love and marriage…. This generation has slid so far off of the deep end when it comes to dating, relationships …

Happy, Happy New Year! It’s officially 2017!! Congratulations, you have officially and successfully made it through another year, You did it!! Whether you ran through the finish line or you crawled through. You have finished.

It’s that time of year, again! Mentally, we’re preparing to enter a new year; while simultaneously planning and setting goals to better ourselves. But in order to step into the newest phase of our lives, it’s time to rid ourselves of dead weight. We have to understand that it’s okay to let go. …

*Disclaimer: If this post offends you, I’m not sorry. I can’t and won’t apologize for what I say. Like my friend Dominique says “You can’t be a pacifist when you speak the truth”*

It’s so easy to give up and settle for life as we know it. Giving up on our dreams and bettering ourselves. We have children, failed a few times, or just feel that we’ve outgrown the “timeframe”… But either way.. that’s false. “fall down 7 times, get up 8.” – Japanese …

Sometimes, it can be really difficult to learn, believe and instill in you, your value. We increase or decrease our worth depending on the emphasis of the importance other people put on us… It’s starts when we’re young, our parents either make us feel like shining stars or we appear …

“Fear alone led me to realize that we as people tend to have the bad habit of blocking our blessings. Even though we feel that we may be undeserving of what God has to offer us, that doesn’t mean that we should block what HE does for us. We do …

Disclaimer: this post is not for the faint at heart. If you aren’t ready for a moment of truth and self reflection…Bow out slowly. Even though YOU might need to stay. **I pray this message reaches and releases your heart from whatever the enemy may be using to hinder you. …