First of all, F**k you

*There are no disclaimers, I’m sure you’re grown* I’ve been bouncing between choosing to write this and just letting it slide. But at this point, I genuinely just feel that I am over all nouns (people, places & thingsss) and this will be the one good vent that gets me …

F*** YOU and Your Representative

Dating has been super hard the last few years.  Genuinely a lot of it is hard, for absolutely no reason at all. I’ve experienced so much, personally and from watching the experiences of those around me. From both the male and female perspective, so there is noooooo gender bias over here, honey.  …

Can You Stop?

This is definitely a part of my rant series. I’m just genuinely tired, and I mean TIREEEDDDDD of people and all of their assumptions regarding MY life. Can you stop? Like Seriously? CAN. YOU. STOP?? *There is no disclaimer, because genuinely, I don’t care how it’s taken*

Soy Afro-Latina, And Damn Proud

As many of you have seen, Amara La Negra, has sparked such a huge debate when it comes to Black Latinos, when she referred to herself as an Afro-Latino to a fellow Latino. We watched how that played out on television, but Amara is now getting the backlash. First and …

#TakeAKnee

Disclaimer, This is not for the “faint hearted.” spare me. Do not try to defend white supremacy here. feign ignorance else where. Like many, I’m a huge football fan. I look forward to the fall and Football Sundays. I’m ready to pull out all of my gear and rep my …

Dating with Purpose.

Disclaimer* Before you get all sensitive No, I am “not a bitter, independent black woman that doesn’t need a man”. I’m not nor have I ever been your “stereotypical black woman”. I believe in dating, love and marriage…. This generation has slid so far off of the deep end when it comes to dating, relationships …

Value of The Black Man

Warning!! **this post is not for the lil’ Wayne’s & Raven Symone’s of the world. Whether you want to face the truth or not.. Racism is more than just a “thing”. ** A few months ago, I wrote a post about the “Value of the Black Woman.” And as of …